Saturday, November 22, 2008

#21-Game Day

Well today was the big game between University of Michigan and Ohio State. This was always a big game for Shawn. For as long as I can remember we would both get dressed up in our game day gear, order Chinese take-out, go home eat and watch the game on TV. Even before Shawn died, this year was going to be a little different than years past because YSU played a game today. (Shawn was seriously stressing about missing this game today to be at his own game) In years past what ever college we have been at the season usually ended the week before so this was never an issue. I told him not to worry about it I would be a good wife, and text him a play by play and I would DVR the game so we could watch it the next day.(so not the same in his eyes!) Shawn got the best of both worlds today...he got to watch both games at the same time. He had the best seat to watch both games. YSU won (go Penguins!!) Wish I could say the same for UofM, but as usual this season they couldn't do anything right and lost the game 42-7. YUCK!! We can only hope that next season is better.

I decided earlier this week that I was going to continue our game day tradition. I dressed today in my UofM t-shirt that Shawn got me for last years game. Bo of course wore his UofM football jersey and he even got a new football toy to play with during the game. Then for lunch I ordered Chinese take out, went home ate and watched the game. YSU started their game at 2:00 so for about an hour I watched the UofM game on TV and listened to the YSU game on the radio. I have done this all year. Watch UofM on TV and listen to YSU on the radio. It just kind of makes me feel 'normal' because that is what I'm so used to doing on Saturdays. I usually can't wait for the football season to be over. It is a long season and at the end I always missed Shawn because of the long hours that football coach's work. Today I told one of the coach's that I didn't want this season to end. He asked me why. I told him because I always looked forward to the season being over to spend more time with Shawn. However, this year is so different, I already miss Shawn so much, listening to their games was just something that I was hanging onto, something that was still normal for me. He told me that YSU football will be back again next year, and that Shawn and I will always be part of the YSU football family. Like I said yesterday...sweet guys. Here are some pic's of our UofM football game day! Man Bo can hang onto the ball better than some of the UofM players!
Laying with me on the couch before the game started. Gosh he has a cute face!

Still snuggling with me.



All ready for the big game!!
Well that was it... our UofM vs Ohio State game day tradition. This was all for you Shawn, I hope you enjoyed the game!!! I love you!!!




15 comments:

Emily (Apron Strings) said...

Oh yes ... my mantra this year was "It's a transition year. It's a transition year ..." But that only lasts so long.

Oh, how I wish we could have beat Ohio. :-(

Glad that Bo was there to keep you company.

Amanda Hoyt said...

Jen,
I'm glad you were able to watch the games and remember Shawn today.
Hugs and prayers,
Amanda

nancy said...

gosh, i just freaking hate ohio state. grrrr.

But yay for YSU! Go penguins is right!

Hey - and thanks for the nice comments about the pictures on my site. You must be one of the nicest people out there. You have such a reason to become selfish (not meaning that meanly, but meaning it as you had something so terrible happen and you could just use up all your time for yourself) and yet you always come over and say something nice to me. You rule.

And it took me a minute to figure out what the hell you were talking about in "thanks for telling me that story" when you mentioned the wedding pics. I was like "what story?" and then I remembered. So that's nice you got to see the backstory in something such a great event to know just how special that even really was for many of us. And what it means to you too. :) You make me smile Jen.

ssbean said...

Bo is getting cuter and cuter. He's growing so fast though. When I started reading your post, I wondered and hoped that you took pics of little Bo. Glad you enjoyed the games and Chinese.

missy said...

hello my name is Melissa....this is my first time leaving you a comment. a friend of mine found you and told me i had to read your story....wow is all i can say to you right now....my husband has also started reading your story!!! there are days i just can not read your post...because i cry...so i can not even imagine what you deal with every day!!!! my heart goes out to you!!! with each day i hope things get easier for you!! i will keep you in my thoughts and prayers!!!! hang in there!!!

Catherine said...

Hi, I think I have commented before but I just wanted to tell you I have become a loyal follower of your blog. My heart breaks for your loss but you have a very positive outlook on life, It amazes me. Im glad you have your "blogging" as an outlet for you. Football season never has to end in your "heart"! Corny I know but there is always so much football around. I know my husband can find a game on TV any time of year any time of day. God Bless you as you celebrate the Holidays with your family.

Amy said...

Sounds like the two of you had a great time. I love the pictures of Bo.

Amy said...

I did your list of 31 things for my post today. Thanks for the idea.

Mama Bear said...

I love the pics of Bo

Soapchick said...

Bo is absolutely adorable and I hope he is bringing you much comfort during these difficult days. Shawn would be so proud of you. Much love and blessings to you.

Liz said...

I thought of you as I watched part of the game before leaving to watch the OU Texas Tech game...I was hoping Michigan could pull out a win for you...
what a great way to remember Shawn to day...listening and watching his two teams.

Jennifer said...

Hope you had a peaceful day watching the games and remembering Shawn.
Bo is WAY to cute :)

Jennifer

Anonymous said...

bo is soooooooooooo cute!!!! glad you were able to get through the day - thoughts and prayers coming your way....

Courtney said...

My husband and I watch the OSU vs. U or M game every year too, but we root for OSU. Needless to say we weren't as disappointed as you.

I read your blog all the time and rarely comment because there are no words good enough, but I hate when people lurk on my blog for long periods of time so I just wanted to let you know I was here.

I pray for you daily and wish that I could take some of your pain away. Hang in there, you are doing so well coping and I admire your strength.

Delenn said...

Oh, he is such the cutie pie!! I love love love the U of M stuff!