Tuesday, September 29, 2009

FINALLY...My Ring is Done!!!

Finally after a long drawn out process Shawn's wedding ring that I had designed into a ring for myself is finished. If you don't remember what I'm talking see this post ://taleoftwocoins.blogspot.com/2009/08/it-came-to-me-in-dream.html. Basically, the idea for Shawn's wedding ring came to me in a dream.

A few days after the dream I took Shawn's wedding ring to a local jeweler with a picture of exactly what I wanted the ring to look like. I also told them the significance to this ring and what had happened. I wanted to make sure they would be extra careful with Shawn's ring and not lose it. That was in mid-August and I was told the ring would be ready in three weeks. So I waited patiently. A few days after the three week mark I called to see if it was done. They said no, it would take a few more days. Several days went by and I called again. Still not done. At this point I was starting to get a little irritated. A part of me didn't care because I wanted it done right, but then again if it was going to take longer than three weeks I wish they just would have told me. Then last Thursday I was out at the mall so I figured I would stop in and see if it was ready. The jeweler, they guy making the ring for me told me it was 90% done and that if it wasn't done the next night it would for sure be done by Saturday. He told me that he had it finished once, but didn't like how it looked so he re-did part of it. I told him no problem because I wanted it perfect and I tend to be a picky person (especially when it came to this).

Saturday late afternoon they called and said the ring was finally finished. I got myself ready and my mom, sister and I ran out to the mall to pick it up. I have to admit I was a little excited to see what it looked like. We got to the store and I told the lady I was here to pick up a ring and gave her my last name. She went into the back and came out with a small envelope and then gave me the ring. I looked at it and was instantly upset, almost with tears in my eyes. Shawn's wedding ring had five small diamonds in it and they did not put the diamonds in the ring. Immediately I asked the girl where the diamonds were. She looked at me with this blank stare on her face and told me she new nothing about it. Of course she didn't! I told her there were five diamonds and I wanted to know where they were and why they were not in the ring. She told me she couldn't answer my questions because she did not make the ring. Of course she couldn't! I then told her how important this was to me and that I had also informed them of this before I left the ring. She proceeded to tell me that it was "probably" just a miscommunication between the two jewelers working at the store. Ya think!! Then I was given two options. Number one, I could take the ring with me as is and then bring it back on Monday to be fixed. Or, number two, I could keep the ring at the store and have them fix it first thing Monday morning.

Guess what...I picked option number two but I also made them call the jeweler at home after his shift had ended. First of all I was irritated that the diamonds were not out back in the ring. However, I was irritate at the fact that they didn't even give the diamonds back to me. What the heck did they think...that I wanted them to keep the diamonds? I know they were small, but come on I still wanted them back! It was almost like they were trying to steal them from me. Ok fine, if it was a miscommunication I get that, but the diamonds still should have been given back to me. Once the lady got off the phone with the jeweler he assured her he knew right were the diamonds were at and that he would re-work the ring and add the diamonds and it would be finished for me to pick up Monday night. Last night about a half hour before the mall closed they called me and said the ring was done. Needless to say I didn't go and get it last night. I did go and get it today though. This is what Shawn's wedding ring looked like before. I tried to crop my rings out but it wasn't working so well, so you get to see them again too.

A profile of the new ring.


The front view of the ring. If you click on the picture you can see it a bit larger. I tried to take on on my finger but it just wasn't working.

All in all even with all the extra drama getting the ring I'm really happy with it and the final version was exactly what I had envisioned in my dream. Now I have another part of Shawn with me and well, wearing "his" ring makes it just a little bit better.

27 comments:

~*JaYmE*~ said...

Very pretty! I really like it. Well worth all the damn drama getting it huh?!?

Elana Kahn said...

It's gorgeous... Just absolutely gorgeous! I love what they did with it and I'm so glad you figured out what to do with Shawn's ring.

RN Mama said...

I've been waiting for this post! The ring is beautiful, I'm so glad it all worked out!

Sarah said...

Oh Jen, that is awesome! Maybe it was meant to come to you in a dream, from Shawn? How beautiful.

I am sorry they were such idiots. Like you really wanted them to keep the diamonds! UGH! If they were going to leave them out of the ring, they should have at least put them in a baggie to be honest jewelers.

Steph said...

Oh Jen, that's so pretty! I love it! I'm sorry that you had to deal with all that drama though. What a hassle!

Amy said...

That is amazing. What a mess you had to go through to get it. Love it...

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Jennifer said...

That's beautiful Jen. :o) I'm so glad that things all worked out so that you could get this done.

Absolutely gorgeous. It's amazing what can be done with jewelry ~ especially sentimental pieces that mean so much.

Anonymous said...

It is so beautiful Jen !! I am happy that the jeweler was able to work with you and get you exactly what you envisioned.

Hayley said...

I love it!

Misty Dawn said...

I love it Jen! I'd be quite pissed off to not have the diamonds in it either. It was a great idea!

Lisa said...

Jen - I can totally see your frustration. I would have been absolutely ticked off. For them to not even offer the diamonds to you is just insane. Luckily they made it right and the ring turned out beautiful. That is something special that you can wear forever and always not only have Shawn in your heart, but right there holding your hand too. Thanks for sharing it with us.

Hugs,
Lisa

Coco said...

What a great idea! It's really beautiful!

Autumn said...

It turned out beautifully!

5th Belle Avenue said...

Thank you SO much for the award!! It makes my heart so happy and I am SO appreciative! I loved reading your list. And oh my goodness, the ring is BEAUTIFUL. What a neat idea! I love that you have something so special to wear daily that was his. How cool that the idea came to you in a dream?!

Julie said...

It's beautiful! Sorry that you had such a long wait to get it, and the whole thing with the diamonds would have MORE THAN annoyed me...so the fact that you didn't kill the girl at the store when you saw the ring is probably better than I would have done. :)

Cheryl said...

I love it! I'm glad that you got it done just how you wanted it.

Cheryl

To A T said...

Oh that turned out GORGEOUS!! Glad they were able to finally get it right! :)

Christina said...

It looks so nice!

I can't believe they didn't even give you back the diamonds the first time!

Em said...

I really like how it turned out. Very nice! :)

nancy said...

it's GORGEOUS!

Leslie said...

wow. it is beautiful. i am SO glad it turned out to be what you wanted. you deserve it. wear it proudly. you are amazing!

Erin B. from VA said...

Aw, Jen - it's beautiful! I'm so glad it turned out just how you wanted. I think it's such a loving tribute to a great man, and a wonderful marriage.

Hope you are looking forward to a nice weekend!!

(((hugs)))

Sue said...

Jen,

I just wanted to tell you I love the ring. Very nice idea that was. Love reading the post and always will.

Robyn said...

Ok wow...it's pretty but what was it before the 5 diamonds? Just a band? Sorry you had to go through all the drama but it looks great!

Anonymous said...

LOVE THE RING!! So happy for you! Sorry it took so long and so much trouble for you though. I thought of you alot the past few weeks. Tony was admitted to the hospital with what they thought was a heart problem luckily it wasn't but I did think of you often and you have been in my prayers. God Bless! Again, I am so glad you got your ring!!! or his ring!! :)

Sara said...

I love it! It is really beautiful -I am glad that you were able to get what you wanted!